Motherhood

Mother’s Day Must Haves

Aside from having a little peace and quiet, I’ve been brainstorming on what would make the perfect Mother’s Day gift this year. It’s pretty customary in the Jackson household for us to buy ourselves what we want for specific holidays. After nearly 9 years of marriage, removing the guessing game and buying exactly what we want ensures all parties are happy in the end!

I’ve posted a few ideas for you all to think about, but today I’m sharing exactly what I’m buying for myself … because momin’ ain’t easy and I deserve something special!

Self-care:

I’ve been wanting to get back into reading. I used to read all the time and with everything I have going on on a daily basis, I’ve found it hard to get a good book and stick with it to the end. But there are a few books that I really want to read and if you’ve read them, I definitely want to know what you think! I love a good inspirational book or self help book, so I picked out a few popular ones that I’ve heard are great.

Skincare:

I don’t always have time for a spa day, so I bring the spa to my house with my favorite skincare goodies. I am refilling some of my favorites this Mother’s Day and adding in a couple of new things to try. My skin has been a little off lately because I’ve been working so much and not drinking enough water, but I’m turning things around with the help of a few of my favorite products.

Beauty:

Another thing I’ll be replenishing this Mother’s Day is my beauty bag. I’m not hard to shop for, just keep my favorites stocked and I’m a happy girl. It is not uncommon for me to have multiple quantities on hand of the same makeup – running out of something is my worst nightmare. I have been out of my Fenty Beauty foundation for WEEKS and every time I go to the store to buy, they are sold out of my shade. If that’s not a lesson in “keep your ish stocked up” … I don’t know what is. I’ll be shopping at the Sephora inside J.C. Penney (both in store and online) because I love going there to get my stuff. I will also be trying a new Mark Jacobs foundation in addition to Cover FX. I’ll share a review soon.

Splurge:

“I work hard and I deserve nice things” (repeats that 3 times in the car before bringing my shopping bag in the house and my husband seeing it) haha! But really, every now and then you should treat yourself. Deciding between these two bags. Chanel would be vintage and heavily discounted.

Style:

Every year this time of year I treat myself to new summer dresses, sandals and shorts/summer bottoms. This is such a style staple for me as the weather gets warmer and I love to have great options to pull from in my closet.

What will you be treating yourself to this Mother’s Day? I hope you enjoy your day with your family.

XO – Steph

Travel

How To Plan A Girls Trip

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Girls trip 101! This year I turned 30 and I wanted to do something really fun for my birthday! All of my close friends from high school turned 30 this year also, so we started planning for a fun long weekend in Cabo to get away and celebrate.

This girls trip first came up as a possibility in January, and while we all go on our own trips individually, this was our first time traveling together, so I was very excited to get some ideas going! We had such a good time and stayed at the perfect resort, so I’m sharing a few tips on how to plan the perfect girls trip – because everyone should go on at least 1 in their life! I’m determined to make this a yearly thing for my friends!

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1. How To Plan A Girls Trip: Pull out your calendars and agree on a date

The older we get, the more hectic our schedules can get, so pull out your calendars and see what dates might work for your getaway. I’d recommend having 1-2 back up days just in case flight deals are better for a different weekend. Luckily, we all were able to make the same weekend work and we found a great deal on Expedia that helped to make the trip really affordable.

2. How To Plan A Girls Trip: Make sure everyone has their passports

We knew we wanted to go to Mexico, so we needed to make sure that everyone had a passport and that it wasn’t expired. We only had one person who needed to get a passport, and since we started planning several months in advance, it was not a big deal to get that prior to our departure.

3. How To Plan A Girls Trip: Set trackers for flights and check deals periodically

Now that we have determined our dates and have our passports in progress, we set trackers on flights and checked them out periodically. We didn’t buy until a little over a month prior to the trip. We all have different sites that we use to check deals, so it was helpful to have varying perspectives and options on what was out there in terms of flights, resorts and bundle deals. Even though we booked through Expedia, we searched several sites before deciding on that one.

4. HOw To Plan A Girls Trip: Be flexible

During the waiting phase of checking flights and rates, it’s important to be flexible. Even though I really wanted to go to Cabo, if another part of Mexico had a better deal, I was ready to go there too. The water is also very rough in Cabo, and we had a few ladies in the group that wanted to be able to get in the water, so we looked at Cancun as well. Cabo ended up being cheaper, but we found a resort that had a private beach and we were able to keep everyone happy! To me, it’s important to remember the overall objective of the trip is to relax and have a great time with friends, so if there are changes that need to be made, just go with it!

5. How To Plan A Girls Trip: Travel/Pack Smart

We flew Spirit, which I think was a first for all of us! In order to save on travel costs, we shared a suitcase – 2 people per bag – plus our individual carry ons. This worked out really well. I of course went over the weight limit because I brought a lot of pieces to shoot for the blog but the idea was to save on costs! Haha!

6. How To Plan A Girls Trip: Discuss activities/excursions ahead of time

Figure out who wants to go on an adventure and who just wants to lay on the beach, from there, plan out your days to meet both needs or split up so that you can do both! We went to see the arch and we did an impromptu banana boat ride on our last day in Cabo (if I ever get the green light to share the hilarious video from that train wreck, trust me, I will!) We were all on the same page for the most part on this, but talk to your friends and figure out what you all want to do!

7. How To Plan A Girls Trip: Get ready to have SO MUCH FUN!

I feel like this one is self-explanatory! You are planning this getaway to have FUN with your best girls, so just let loose and have a great time!

Have you traveled recently with your girlfriends? Tell me all about it! This was my first time and honestly, I had the best time. I literally can’t wait to go on another one. I think 3-4 days is the perfect amount of time and we all really enjoyed just relaxing and soaking up the sun.

So grab your girls and getaway somewhere! I am now a huge advocate for everyone going on a girls trip! Even if you start off small and do a staycation, that time is so important.

Thanks so much for reading! Here are some pictures from my girls trip!

XO – Steph

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how to plan the perfect girls trip birthday trip ideas getaway

how to plan the perfect girls trip birthday trip ideas getaway

how to plan the perfect girls trip birthday trip ideas getaway

how to plan the perfect girls trip birthday trip ideas getaway

how to plan the perfect girls trip birthday trip ideas getaway

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Beauty

Protective Styling For Women Of Color

Protective styling is a somewhat low-maintenance way to keep your hair healthy and strong without having to maintain it daily. I am by no means a hair expert, but my favorite way to wear my hair when I’m going on vacation is in some sort of protective style. What that means is, I don’t have to put heat on my hair or even really touch my natural hair, which helps it grow!

For my Cabo trip I got braids! But I have worn various styles throughout the years. My go-to style is a sew-in, but I’ve also dabbled in wigs just recently. I love that I can change it up and keep my natural hair protected.

Below are some examples of braids I’ve done in the past, as well as some styles that you may not have known were a protective style! I rarely straighten my natural hair anymore because I’d rather not put heat on it when I can wear a protective style to achieve the look I’m going for.

Braids:

I normally wear braids before going to a beach vacation where I will be doing a lot of swimming or water activities. My favorite style is jumbo box braids with a diamond part. They last about 2-3 weeks for me when I get them for a vacation, but I imagine they’d last a little longer if I got them and wasn’t swimming every day.

Sew-In:

I have worn sew-ins for about 4 years now. I started wearing them when I moved to Houston and the humidity literally made it impossible to keep my hair styled for any period of time. If straightened my hair and then walked outside, I had a “afro poof” within minutes! I was always anti hair extensions, mainly because I was unsure of what they were and if they’d look natural on me, but I found a great hair stylist and took the plunge. Nearly every photo of me on Instagram features this type of hair style! I can curl it, cut it, color it … you name it! … and my natural hair remains untouched.

Wigs:

This protective style is a new one for me. I was at my hair salon in Dallas and I complimented my stylists hair because it looked SO good! And she was like “it’s a wig!” My mind was blown and I was instantly intrigued. So what did I do? I went to the beauty supply and bought my first wig. You can do so much these days with a wig, you can even have them custom made. A few of my recent pictures are of me wearing a wig.

I go for subtle looks that are pretty close to how I normally wear my hair, however, protective styling is another way to try out a new hair color or hair cut without having to cut your own hair. While this technique is primarily seen in women of color, anyone and everyone can do it! Try it out and send me your photos! As I discover more ways to protective style my hair, I will definitely share.

XO – Steph

Style

Perfect Little Black Dress + How To Balance A Traveling Spouse

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Every time I find a noteworthy Little Black Dress, I share it on here for you guys to see because I strongly believe every woman should have a healthy rotation of options in her closet. This was another ASOS find during their 20% off dresses sale. It is incredibly form fitting, yet not too tight.

This particular dress would be perfect for work if you add a blazer or a button up blouse under it. I love finding versatile pieces! What are some of your favorite LBDs?

How To Find Balance With A Traveling Spouse

Something that I don’t share very much on the blog or social media, is the fact that my husband travels quite a bit for work each week. As you all know, I work full-time and blog full-time (I put in over 40 hours a week for both) and often times finding balance for my family can be a challenge. I know many of you are in the same situation as us, so I wanted to share what works and how we find balance.

Pick A Day That Works – Use It To Get Ahead

I work weekends and evenings a lot for my daytime job and for the blog, so my husband really steps up and gets us ready for the week on Sundays. We pack the boys’ lunches, plan meals, and get all laundry washed and ready for the week. I honestly don’t think our week would run as smooth as it does without the prep work that my hubby puts in every Sunday. I know it’s the last thing that many of us want to do as we try to relish in the final moments of the weekend, but your Wednesday self will thank you, trust me. By having all of this taken care of on Sunday, when I’m home with the boys during the week trying to get everything done, it’s one less thing we have to worry about. Since my spouse is gone during the hectic parts of the week, his way of keeping us sane is taking care of as much as he can when he is home. If I’m off on the weekend, then I am doing the same things, getting our family ready for the week.

Get On A Schedule

We have a lot of moving parts in the Jackson household. Between sports, after school activities, tutoring and my own personal work, it often feels like every hour of our day, every week, is taken with some sort of activity. It helps when my husband is out of town for us to have our weekly schedule as set as possible. I try to make sure that I don’t add any last minute activities, even if it’s really enticing, because it just throws off the schedule and is hard on the kids keeping their routine. Even if you don’t have children, there are probably some consistent aspects of your week that occur on a weekly basis. Think through those things, map out a schedule and hold yourself to that schedule. My life was utter chaos until I started taking the time to do this, and I’m so glad I did. It makes all the difference when I’m trying to get everyone where they need to be without my husband here to help me.

Constant Communication

The hardest thing to balance, outside of keeping the family’s schedule together, is keeping the kiddos (… and me too) happy and not missing dad too much! We talk all the time and try to make it as if he never even left. Since I work a lot on the weekends, this is usually their dad/son bonding time and the boys love it!

What are some of your tips that work for your family? We try really hard to make our lives as easy as possible because there are so many things that we have going on. So far, this has worked for us! I’d love to hear from you too though.

Thank you so much for reading. Have a great week

XO – Steph

 

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Style

How To Style A Bootie In Spring

Don’t put your booties away just yet, Spring is here and I want to show you how to style them long after the winter months. I love wearing booties in the springtime because they are an easy way to dress up a look or offer a different option outside of sandals.

Styling for spring is my favorite time of year because of the amazing contrast between the dark layers that I typically wear in the winter. Bring on the floral prints and light, airy fabrics.

How to Style A Bootie In Spring:

Dress Up  Style

Dress up your booties by styling them with a great floral print or spring appropriate dress. Bright colors and spring inspired prints are the perfect way to pull together your look and keep it season appropriate. The hesitation many people have with wearing a boot past winter is worrying about not being on trend with the season, but don’t worry, by styling the look with a piece that is seasonal and bright, you’ll be able to rock this look all spring.

I found this dress at ASOS during their 20% off dresses event. I bought a few during that sale because I love when I can find a great deal. My booties were a gift from my friends at Pour La Victorie, you can find them at Nordstrom. You may also like THIS pair, which are a little more economical.

Wear With Shorts

Styling your booties with shorts is another way to extend their life past winter. I love the idea of wearing a great high-waist denim short with a stylish, spring blouse and finishing the look off with a great bootie.

Style With Jeans

My favorite way to style a bootie with jeans is with a great high waist denim or distressed boyfriend jean, paired with a bodysuit or simple white tank. What I love about this style is that if it gets chilly at night, you can add a blazer or stylish jacket to complete the look for a night time look.

Tell me … how do you style your booties past winter? Do you like to wear them in the spring as much as I do? Send me your styles, I’d love to see them. Thank you so much for reading loves! I so appreciate you all.

Have a great week!

XO – Steph

Beauty

The Ultimate Mom’s Day Giveaway

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Mother’s Day is right around the corner and I am SO excited to be teaming up with Seagram’s Escapes to give a special mom in your life the ultimate Mother’s Day gift – a year-long movie streaming subscription. #EscapesforMom #ad #sweepstakes #21+

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I’m a boy mom, so I am extremely out numbered in the Jackson household, especially when it comes to picking what we’ll watch on TV. I think this Mother’s Day, I’ll ask for total control the remote … after a fabulous brunch of course. 

If you’ve been following along with me on stephtaylorjackson.com, then you know that I am a huge Seagram’s fan! So after you enter the giveaway, check out the recipe below for a tasty drink that is perfect for mom and YOU! 

The “Momosa™”

Champagne/Bubbly + your favorite Seagram’s Escape Drink! 

 

Giveaway Rules: 

Abbreviated Rules: “No purchase necessary to enter or win a prize. A purchase will not increase chances of winning. Sweepstakes begins on 04/08/18 and ends on 05/12/18. Sweepstakes open to legal US residents who are 21 years of age or older at time of entry.  Visit www.seagramsescapes.com/mothersdaysweeps for Official Rules and how to enter. Void wherever prohibited or restricted by law. Rafflecopter and Instagram do not endorse Sponsor’s products and are not affiliated with the Sweepstakes. Picture is for illustrative purposes and may vary from actual Prize awarded. Additional terms/restrictions apply. © 2018 The Seagram Beverage Company, Rochester, New York. All Rights Reserved.”  

Good luck and tell a friend! 

XO – Steph

Beauty

Ulta Haul: 21 Days Of Beauty Event

#AD: This post was written in partnership with Ulta Beauty. All thoughts and views are my own! 

If you’ve been following along with my blog for any period of time, then you know that I am a beauty lover, just about as much as I love fashion. I went to Ulta recently to shop their 21 Days of Beauty event (March 18 – April 7) and wanted to share what I found with you all because you can literally get so many amazing products that you probably use on a daily basis at a really good price! 

Every day during the event, there are new items on sale (up to 50% off!) I am a sucker for a good lippie so I jumped on the Tartiest Lipsticks and Lipglosses as soon as I saw they were a part of the event. I mean, $10 for a product that is typically $20 … say no more, I’m sold. 

I love a good beauty haul, so click on the links below to see what I purchased.

The Dermalogica Daily Micro Exfoliant is on sale today only for less than $30. It’s usually almost $60. I love the way this product makes my skin feel. A true beauty essential. 

Have you all been shopping the Ulta 21 Days of Beauty Event? If so, tell me what you bought! Do you love it? If you haven’t shopped the event yet, no worries! You still have time – you can shop today’s sale products and … spoiler alert … tomorrow’s sale is pretty amazing too. 

I hope you enjoy shopping for your beauty haul as much as I did! I can’t wait to see what you guys find! 

Thank you so much for reading.

XO – Steph 

Motherhood

I Want More Kids … But Not Right Now

I want more kids, but not right now. Not that I feel I need to explain myself to anyone, but this is a common question I get or something people wonder when they see me, someone who has somewhat “older” kids. The “well, are you going to have any more?” question always comes up, And the answer is … Lord willing … one day!

We are busy people with huge goals and honestly, there are so many moving parts right now between our real estate business, my blog and our full-time jobs that I couldn’t imagine adding in another human(s), but should the Lord see fit for us to bring another person in this world, when the time is right, we’d most definitely say YES.

I know I’m not the only mama who probably deals with this question. I know I’m also probably not the only one who does the math in their head in terms of the number of hours in the day! I’m always calculating sleep right before I close my eyes … “if I go to bed right now, I’ll get 7 hours of sleep, and have 1 hour of work time before the kids wake up.” LOL! It’s literally bananas in the Jackson household … every day. The hustle never stops.

What I think is so important is staying true to what is best for YOU. There will always be an opinion, especially in the mommy world, but no one knows what is best for your child and your family like you do.

What I think is so cute is how bad my kiddos want a baby. They are always asking us when they will get to be big brothers. It’s even worse when I have friends who are pregnant or welcoming newborns. They are like … um, where’s our baby?! Why do they get a baby and we don’t. It’s so cute!

So the answer to the constant question is YES we want more children but not right now. Funny story, when my husband asked me to be his girlfriend over 10 years ago, my response was … “yes, but not right now.” Things turned out just fine for us, so I’m confident that in the Lord’s timing, everything will work out just fine when we are ready this time around.

Until that much anticipated moment comes, can we just enjoy for a minute how fast my little men are growing? Sometimes I look at them and just wonder where in the world the time has gone. It’s incredible how fast time flies. If you’re a new parent, the only advice I would give is enjoy, relish and make time to truly ENJOY every moment, the good and the bad.

Do any of you have older children but know that you want more? I’d love to hear from you. Thank you so much for reading! Love you guys.

XO – Steph

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Motherhood

Turning 30

This year I am turning 30! I turned the big 3-0 this year and while some may dread getting older, I couldn’t help but smile at how far I’ve come and how hopeful I am for the future. It’s hard to believe I’ve been on this earth for 30 years. It seems just like yesterday I was in high school wondering what I’d be doing in this very moment. There have been set backs, mistakes (big and small), and many moments when I felt like I wanted to quit or that I wasn’t “good enough,” but there have also been some of the most amazing moments of my life that have pushed me into the person I am today – someone with vision and purpose.

I have this overwhelming sense of responsibility to live life to the fullest, and to make all of my dreams (and my children’s dreams come true … within reason), for I know that tomorrow is not guaranteed and we only get one shot at life … so why not make it as incredible as possible?

Turning 30. This year for me is all about growth in both my personal life and my businesses. I have worked really hard to grow my brand and I am excited about what is next. I am my happiest self when I do what I love to do, and I plan to do a whole lot more of that this year and for years to come. I remember vividly one of my last conversations with my grandfather before he passed away last year was about work and how people work their whole lives and aren’t doing what they truly want to do. I’ve known from a very early age that this is not the type of life that I wanted, and I feel blessed to be able to create content and build this corner of the internet into something that I truly love to wake up and do every day.

This is 30. Wow.

Thank you, Jesus for this amazing gift of life and for each and every day that I am blessed with on this earth. I am so grateful. I thought about sharing 30 things about me for my 30th birthday post, but honestly, all I want to do is express gratitude for the journey so far. We’ve come a mighty long way … and I’m not talking just about the blog. Sometimes it’s nice to just look back for a moment for perspective.

This will be my best year yet, I feel it. Thank you so much for following along with me and for reading my blog! I appreciate you all.

XOXO – Steph

Style

Best Dressed Wedding Guest

Wedding season is HERE! And while I don’t have any weddings coming up this year, I do want to share a few dresses that I’m loving at the moment that will for sure put you in the best dressed wedding guest category (not to upstage the bride of course!)

So many of my favorite shops are having sales or have dedicated wedding pages. I’ve scoured their shop pages looking for the best finds and even bought a few to style for you all! I linked the best of the best below for you to check out.

The dress I’m wearing today was gifted from Jay Godfrey NYC, a designer who I’ve quickly fallen in love with these past few months. While the dresses may be a splurge, they are such amazing quality and design that they will be staples in your closet for years to come.

I pulled a few options for you based on the type of wedding you may be attending:

1. Outdoor Spring/Summer Wedding

We are based in Texas, so my options are definitely more warm weather appropriate. I think I have only attended one outdoor wedding, and for me it’s all about being stylish but comfortable in the elements.

2. Formal Occasion

I know it’s not common for everyone to have a formal dress just ready and waiting, so I wanted to link a few options from Rent The Runway because I find this site to be super helpful for occasions like this.

3. Cocktail Hour

The easiest event to style in my opinion. I own a good amount of cocktail dresses and I always buy them, even if I don’t have an event in mind yet. Trust me, it helps to be prepared.

I personally love going to more formal events but I do find shopping for cocktail hour to be a bit easier. Typically, I already have this type of dress in my closet.

I love attending weddings! They are such a fun celebration of love. What do you think of my wedding guest style options? Could you see yourself wearing any of these?

Let me know in the comments or shoot me an email! I love to hear from you all.

Have a great week!

XO – Steph

Photos by Sweet Memory Photography

Style

Casual Spring Outfit Under $100

Today I’m bringing you a casual Spring outfit for under $100. I shared this sweater on Instagram forever ago and realized after I saw a few of you searching for it on my blog that I never posted it here. If that ever happens, you can always swing by my shop page and see every look that I share online. I use LIKEtoKNOW.it to make it really easy for you to shop!

Creating this spring outfit was easy because I love this sweater! It is super soft and comfortable + a steal of a price. I rarely shop J. Crew factory store, but this was a gem that I found and that I can’t stop wearing. I love casual looks because they are super easy to add different pieces to. You can dress them up by adding great jewelry or a stylish pair of shoes, or you can keep it simple, like I did here with mules.

I live in casual clothes when I’m not working or attending events. Because of this, I am always on the hunt for trendy looks that are still comfortable. You can shop my look below via the images. I linked everything for you and 2 of 3 of the items are under $100!

This week has been a hectic one! This post was drafted to go live on Monday, and here I am Thursday night trying to crank out all of my posts for the week. I try not to beat myself up when this happens, because honestly, I have a lot going on and I know I’m doing my best! But I do want to say, so sorry for the delay this week! I turned 30 today (post coming soon!) While most might dread it, I’m embracing it and SO ready to take on what life has in store and continue to build my dreams up as high as the Lord will allow me to.

What are some things you’d like to see on the blog in the coming weeks? Send me a message! I love to hear from you guys.

As always, thank you so much for reading! I appreciate you so much.

XO – Steph

Blogging Tips

Branding 101: How To Stay On Brand

For my readers who are fellow content creators or entrepreneurs, I wanted to share a part of a series that I just started with you: Branding 101. Blogging advice posts seem to be popular with a very large part of my audience, so I am trying to incorporate more of these types of posts into my normal fashion and beauty content. If you’re not a blogger, I’m sure there are a few nuggets you can pull from for your every day life too! If not, we’ll be back to regular scheduled programming on Friday!

If you’ve read any of my previous posts, then you know that I’m a huge believer in finding your niche for your blog or business, and building from there. But once you’ve identified who your message is for, it’s the building of your brand that sometimes takes the most work, requires the most time and might have you feeling like you need to go back to the drawing board.

I’m not an expert, but after 3 years of blogging under this new domain and over 5 years of owning some type of brand or business, I’ve got a pretty good handle on what it takes to build your brand.

I’m sharing THREE tips (in no particular order) that I hold near and dear to my heart:

1. Every opportunity is not a good opportunity

In order to grow, you have to stay on brand and focused on what your message is. I’ve turned down countless opportunities and giftings because the product or service does not fall in line with the direction I see my business moving or with what I am presently working on. Is it amazing when a brand reaches out to you for a sponsored post or gifting opportunity? Yes, of course! Especially if you’re a new blogger! I remember the feeling, trust me. However, I would challenge you to really think about your content and ask yourself, does this fall in life with what my core message is? If the answer is no, then I say – don’t do it. Have I left money on the table as a result of this? Absolutely! And I’m okay with that. Why? Because in order to build your brand, you have to have a brand vision in mind for what you want your business to be. Branding is equal parts hard work and vision.

Story time: when I first started blogging, I would get emails left and right about sunglasses, teas, panty subscriptions, vitamins … you name it, it’s been in my inbox (and I’m sure many of yours too). I had to really take a step back and think about how far I wanted to take stephtaylorjackson.com, I knew Flat Tummy Tea and Hair Vitamins (and the like) were not on my vision board for my brand and they weren’t things that I wanted to be linked with my brand. Not to say that those things are bad, they are not, but I’m a fashion blogger! And I wanted to be a resource to you for fashion advice and styling tips.

I didn’t want to confuse that message, especially in the beginning as I was building my audience and growing my blog. This is so important in the beginning and even as you continue to grow.

The more established I’ve become, the more I say no. And every time I say no, an even better door opens up for me that is more on brand and moving me in the direction that I want to go. Trust the process. Overnight success might happen every once in awhile, but it’s rare. This will require a few sleepless nights and a lot of hard work.

2. Build on to your brand when you are ready, not because everyone else is doing it

This is the perfect next topic because it correlates with what I was just chatting about above. We know that every opportunity is not a good opportunity, but when do you start adding new verticals to your brand or business? Will it confuse your audience? Will they like it?

Every brand is different. I did not start adding true lifestyle content until I was in my 2nd year of blogging. I am sure I could have done more sooner, but I didn’t feel like the time was right and I felt like I needed to really prepare my audience for the shift in content. Now, granted, these were not huge shifts by any means, but I slowly started adding more beauty, and then lifestyle content after polling my audience to see if this was something that they would be interested in seeing.

I launched as a fashion blog, but I knew that I eventually wanted to do more. My advice to anyone unsure of how to layer in a new vertical would be to talk to your audience! The polling option on Instagram is awesome! Also, sprinkle in a few posts here and there and see how they do.

I personally felt like I needed to master my fashion blog and be really consistent here before I added anything else to my plate, and that worked for me. If you need to stick with one message for awhile before layering in more of what you really want to do, don’t be afraid to do that! It just makes adding in that next step so much easier.

3. Be consistent.

Being consistent is key in pretty much anything in life, but especially for your brand or business. When you think about major brands that you know and love, think about their messaging and how it’s pretty much always the same. Even if the television commercial is different or the ad changes, the core branding is the same. That’s how you have to view your website, your posts/content, your social media pages, your tone, your energy … all of that (and so much more) is a part of your brand. Because of this, it is SO important to be genuine and true to who you are when branding yourself or your business. Be consistent but also stay true.

My Instagram feed gives off the same vibe as my website and when I connect with you guys on Instagram Stories, my goal is be a little more laid back and casual, but the overall message is the same. Everything has to flow. With me, what you see is what you get. Sometimes I take a few days off from posting because I need to refocus or shoot additional content that aligns a little bit better with my website. Take the the time you need so that everything you produce is something you are proud of.

That’s all I have for today! Let me know if you have any questions or comments! I always love hearing from you guys.

Thank you so much for reading.

XO – Steph

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